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How do You Know When You’ve Found “The One”?

With digital technology making it so easy to shop for homes online, it is really important to know what you’re looking for when you start your home search.

If you’re thinking about buying a home this year, you probably have a list of features that you’d LOVE to have in your new place. Many new homebuyers fantasize about the ones that they see on television or Pinterest, and start looking at the countless homes listed for sale with rose-colored glasses. But do you really need that farmhouse sink in the kitchen in order to be happy with your home choice?

We know the signs of a perfect match. Here’s how to find the perfect home for you:



How to Divide Your Favorite Features into What’s Most Important

When you’re ready to get serious about your home search, the first step is to list all the features that you would like in your home. Then, qualify them. Only after that will you be able to narrow your home search to find “the One”!

Here’s how you should divide all your desired home features:

“MUST-HAVES” – These are your most important physical features or qualities. If a property does not have these items, then it should not be considered. Examples:

  • Distance from work or family

  • Number of bedrooms or bathrooms

  • Within a certain price range

“SHOULD-HAVES” – You would love all of these features or qualities, but they’re not dealbreakers. If the property hits all of the “must-haves” and some of the “should-haves,” it stays in contention. Examples:

  • Outdoor entertainment area

  • Green-certified features

  • FROG or finished basement

“WISH LIST” – Unless it’s absolutely your dealbreaker, this is where your farmhouse sink belongs. If you find a property in your budget with all of the “must-haves,” most of the “should-haves,” and any of these—it’s a winner! Examples:

  • Farmhouse sink in the kitchen

  • Loft with built-in shelving

  • Existing solar panel setup


How to Know You’ve Found “The One”!

Use the criteria above to help guide your home search on EXP Realty. Use your “must-haves” to create a custom search and save it to your My Account. As you review homes that match your individual qualifications, consider how they make you feel.

Here are the Signs You’ve Found Your Perfect Home:

You’d be Upset if it was Gone Tomorrow – Finding a good home is a great feeling. But it’s not as great as finding “the One!” Beware of fly-by-night love affairs.

You Get the Butterflies – Do you wake up thinking about this home? Do you daydream about it at work and catch yourself planning a future together? That’s a good sign.